I have often found in myself the tendency to hold onto personal wrongs which have been committed against me. Many times someone will speak, or act, in a manner which causes me pain or offence. Often I have felt justified in retaining (sometimes for many months) my anger and hurt, and witholding forgiveness because of the memories which I still have to deal with regarding the situation.
That tendency, however, doesn't seem to be in the character of God. I was directed to Hebrews 10:16-17 yesterday, which led to a chain of cross references which I have copy/pasted below. Notice the thread of forgiveness which weaves its way through these verses. Notice also that forgiveness often includes forgetting the offense. Why is it that we can easily, and boldly, preach about and claim God's grace toward ourselves yet we are so reluctant to extend it to one another? When this is present in my life is it not simply an indicator of my lack of understanding of grace?
Lord help us to ACT like you!
Exodus 34:6b-7a The Lord, the Lord God, compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in lovingkindness and truth; who keeps lovingkindness for thousands, who FORGIVES INIQUITY, TRANSGRESSION AND SIN……
Psalm 103:8-13 The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in lovingkindness. He will not always strive with us, nor will He keep his anger forever. HE HAS NOT DEALT WITH US ACCORDING TO OUR SINS, NOR REWARDED US ACCORDING TO OUR INIQUITIES. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is His lovingkindness toward those who fear Him. AS FAR AS THE EAST IS FROM THE WEST, SO FAR HAS HE REMOVED OUR TRANSGRESSIONS FROM US. Just as a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear Him.
Isaiah 38:17 It is you who has kept my soul from the pit of destruction, for YOU HAVE CAST ALL MY SINS BEHIND YOUR BACK.
Isaiah 43:25 I, even I, am the one who wipes out your transgressions for my own sake, and I WILL NOT REMEMBER YOUR SINS.’
Jeremiah 31:34b …for they will all know Me, from the least of them to the greatest of them, declares the Lord, FOR I WILL FORGIVE THEIR INIQUITY, AND THEIR SIN I WILL REMEMBER NO MORE.
Jeremiah 50:20 In those days and at that time, declares the Lord, search will be made for the iniquity of Israel, but THERE WILL BE NONE; and for the sins of Judah, BUT THEY WILL NOT BE FOUND; for I WILL PARDON……
Micah 7:18-19 Who is a God like You, who PARDONS INIQUITY and PASSES OVER THE REBELLIOUS ACT of His possession? He DOES NOT RETAIN HIS ANGER forever, because He DELIGHTS in unchanging LOVE. He will again HAVE COMPASSION on us; He will TREAD OUR INIQUITIES UNDER FOOT. Yes, You WILL CAST ALL OUR SINS INTO THE DEPTHS OF THE SEA.
Hebrews 12:14-15 Pursue peace with all men, and sanctification without which no one will see the Lord. Se to it that no one comes short of the grace of God; and that NO ROOT OF BITTERNESS springing up causes trouble, and by it many be defiled...